Female Led Families & Dominant Daughters
This subject is extremely controversial, and I
think we can all see why. But for those who truly believe in the positive
aspects of female rule, a daughter coming of age and becoming a female
authority to any male in the home, including her father, should be very
natural.
I do think that in a home where this is a
possibility, the ultimate female authority and head of the house, the wife and
mother, should carefully consider how far this should go. Her comfort with
whatever happens should be the most important consideration when the time
comes.
Later, as a girl get older, usually around her late teens, she may be ready to start leading. At this stage fathers can be more open about taking orders from their daughters and waiting on them as opportunities arise. By the time a girl turns 21, she is a woman and deserving of being shown the same respect and obedience as her mother.
It would not be out of line if a mother decided at some point that her daughter should be addressed with a “Yes, Ma’am” and “No, Ma’am” by her father. She could be given a position of authority to approve or deny any request by her father, and also to assign him chores and correct him as she sees fit. Her evolving position of authority, if it is to be valid, must include the authority to correct or discipline any male in her service.
It is fortunate indeed if a young woman can learn from her mother how a confident woman trains a submissive male, and to have a father who sets an example for proper male behavior in a Female-Led home! This is one of the best and most positive beginnings I can think of for her own journey to a happy Femdom marriage.
Each female-led home is different, and it is up
to the head of the family to decide the degree and timing of a daughter’s
involvement. There are many things to consider. The daughter’s interests,
abilities, confidence and maturity are just a few. Also, the male’s level of
training as well as past devoted service to his daughter. Has the daughter been
raised in a home under strict femdom rules and protocols? Does she fully comprehend
and embrace her position as a female authority in regard to him?
When done correctly—i.e., taking all of the above-mentioned factors into consideration—and depending on some key elements falling perfectly into place, I see no reason why young adult daughters shouldn’t be introduced to female dominance and leadership. This will enable them to avoid many of the mistakes other women may make when they embark on a Female-Led lifestyle.
In Female Led homes with more than one woman,
such as roommates or sisters living together, each woman should have equal
authority to instruct, supervise and discipline the males. This also applies in
homes where there is a mother and daughter, once the mother has determined that
her daughter is mature enough to properly handle the situation. Under the
mother’s loving guidance, if the daughter is willing, she should be encouraged,
by careful stages, to assume equal authority over the male. Anything less will
eventually be destructive to the established matriarchal order in the home.
The Civilizing of Men in a Matriarchal Home
I learned a long time ago that women civilize
men. Meaning that women are the reason men settle down, marry, have children,
and become good providers. In other words, they take on the responsibilities of
an adult.
From what I’ve seen and experienced in my own
home, as well as in the homes of many other dominant women, Female Led is the
ideal domestic arrangement for women and men to achieve harmony and happiness
on an enduring basis.
Final Thoughts
Once again, in a properly structured female-led
family, all the women, including older teen daughters, should be given authority
over the males. Of course, the specific rules in every home will differ,
depending on the wishes of the female head of the house. But the males must
clearly understand that every woman, regardless of her age, is to be respected
and obeyed. Once the rules and protocols are set, no woman should be questioned
by the males. Anything other than this will only lead to confusion and a
breakdown in essential matriarchal discipline.
Mistress Sandra is right, and some aspects of raising a daughter in a gynarchic are already becoming important to my wife and me. Our daughter turned 6 this month, and she naturally has no authority over me, but because of my wife's example, or perhaps her own developing personality, she feels free to reprimand me in the cutest ways.
ReplyDeleteShe's been watching a TV show about an upper class couple whose children address them as mother and father rather than mom and dad. She's started to affect their style of speech, and she's begun calling me father. So cute.
One day last month while I was inside working, my wife and a female friend of hers were outside unloading something from the car. They needed help with it, and my wife's friend came to the door and knocked. Our daughter answered. I was in another room, and I heard her say, "Father, somebody at the door." I was right in the middle of entering data on the computer, and I guess I took a little longer to get to the door than my daughter wanted. About a minute later she raised her voice a little more and said, "Father, don't dawdle!"
I had to laugh to myself, but I hurried to the door. Later, my wife's friend said, grinning, "She's quite the little sophisticated taskmaster, isn't she?" I said indeed she is.
Right now, my daughter is learning almost solely by example. She sees her mother command and me obey. Later, we'll impart more specific information to her about our beliefs in matriarchy. I'm a stay at home dad, and teaching her to take her place as her mother's lieutenant, so to speak, when she's old enough will be a tightrope walk. We'll have to balance my dwindling authority with her ascendance while keeping her safe, but I think we'll do ok.